Monday, July 27, 2026

7/27/26 My Author Life

Dear Friend, 

I missed you last week! I was in Albuquerque, New Mexico, attending the Romance Writers of America’s annual conference thanks to a dear and wonderful friend. It was the first time in 8 years that I’ve attended one, and boy, how things have changed. Or maybe my writing needs have changed. I think it could be a bit of both, to be truthful. 

I left in the afternoon of Tuesday the 14th, joined up with Brenda in Denver, then the two of us continued on to Albuquerque, where our mutual friend Lynn was waiting for us. The hotel (Embassy Suites) may not have been as fancy as the Marriott Hotel, but it was nice, just the same, and perfect for a smaller conference. 

By smaller, I mean half of what attended back in 2018. The workshops were fewer (3 every 45 minutes with a 15-minute break in between). I would say 90% of the workshops were geared for beginning or intermediate writers/authors. There were a few that I thought I might have wanted to attend, but just couldn’t justify going to them. 

I did attend one on AI but was a bit disappointed as it wasn’t what I thought it would be. If you were a techy person, it would have been perfect for you. I had been hoping it would be on how AI is affecting authors. 

Any food for the major presentation events was a buffet, which was a big disappointment to me on Saturday night during the awards ceremony. Even so, the food was good and filling. 

As for our room, we each had our own bed to sleep in. I volunteered to sleep on the sofa bed, and it got a bit uncomfortable by night five. I was happy when Monday came. Lynn took Brenda and me to the airport, and we both headed to Denver, and then I went on to Oklahoma City. I was never so happy to cuddle under the covers of my own bed. Oh, and Simon was happy I was home as well. He loves my son and granddaughter, but I’m his person. 

All in all, it was a great trip in that I got to spend time with both Brenda and Lynn, as well as being surrounded by other authors and those who support creatives. Next year RWA will have its conference in Portland, Oregon. Will I be going? Probably not. 

Before I left for the conference trip, I had made the decision to make a healthy change. Both of my parents had passed due to heart conditions, and I’m overweight at 247.2 pounds. I asked my medical person about getting me qualified for the Medicare Bridge Program. It took a couple of weeks (she was on vacation, then I was at RWA) to get the correct paperwork through and then to get the actual approval. With that being said, I got approved and started on Zepbound on the 22nd. 

I’m almost done with my first week, and while I did have a little nausea the first couple of nights, it has been going pretty well. I’m learning what to eat to get my minimum of 80 grams of protein, 35 grams of fiber, and 80 ounces of fluid each day. I will say that the “food noise” has really taken a few steps back, and I feel fuller for a longer amount of time. Also, I have been sleeping much better with fewer middle-of-the-night bathroom breaks. 

That’s about it. I can never thank you enough for continuing to read these snippets into my life as an author. I hope I have not bored you too much with them. 😊 After all, other people's lives are never as glamorous as we may think. 

May your e-reader or bookshelf overflow with delightful books to read! 

Maxine 



Monday, July 6, 2026

7/6/26 My Author Life

Dear Friend,  

WOW! What a wonderfully crazy celebration of 250 years since the signing of the Declaration of Independence. Disney+ (ABC) had events running 24 hours. DC had the biggest fireworks ever despite the heat that covered most of the U.S. 

How did you celebrate? Me? I stayed home in my air-conditioned house, went to bed early, and just relaxed. Mostly because I was at the end of the intestinal thingy that is going around. 

In case the heat wasn’t enough, there were storms all over the place. Some people are still without electricity since Saturday night’s storms here in Oklahoma. Today is a “cold” front, as it is only going to be in the 90s instead of the 100s; those will come later this week and next week unless things change. 

I’m getting my packing list done for my trip to RWA Conference next week in New Mexico. It’s been 8 years since I attended one, and I’m looking forward to getting away with a couple of friends for the week. 

I’m still coming to grips with my mom’s passing last month. I haven’t been able to get back to writing the book that is due out on November 13, but know that I will get there. It takes time, and mom wouldn’t want me to be in the funk right now. My mom’s passing made it 5 deaths (natural causes) in 8 years: my beloved husband, my mother-in-law, my daughter-in-law, my oldest and dearest friend, and my mom. 

So, I’m going to work on getting back to whatever another new normal is going to be and carry on with life and bringing my imagination to life on paper. 

That’s about it. I can never thank you enough for continuing to read these snippets into my life as an author. I hope I have not bored you too much with them. 😊 After all, other people's lives are never as glamorous as we may think.   

May your ereader or bookshelf overflow with delightful books to read! 

Maxine